Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Incredible Joy and Incredible Pain


On one of Oprah's Lifeclasses was the subject of how you can rise up even from the darkest of times. Then she went on to say how sharing a painful experience of yours can help someone going through something just as painful. It made me think of someone reaching out their hand for you to grab a hold of just when you were slipping and about to fall. I felt a small twinge in me when I heard this. I thought to myself, "Can it be that sharing is what I am supposed to do? Can it be that easy, just telling my story?" To clarify, my life has not be easy. I think anyone who knows me will back me up on that. Though in the same breath I can honestly say, my life has been over flowing with love and laughter.
I have a gift of connecting with people. Maybe that is what God has in mind for me. To share what I know. To connect, to let others know they are far from being alone in their pain. I have found in talking to many women over the years, they carry around what I termed, a "heart hurt." 100% of the women I talked to had this. Their reasons about the why differed. But they all had something inside that they carried that caused them pain. Maybe I was just led to connect with those particular women. Maybe there is only one person out there who needs to hear what I can tell them. But one person is enough.
Now the question is where to begin? Which part of my life to begin with? One truth about life: The only way to recognize incredible joy is to have experienced incredible pain. There is no getting around it. Those are the stories I will share, along with some funny ones because I think laughter is the best cure of all.
I hope you come with me. Let's begin.

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