Let them help you!
I have the flu/cold bug. It's my third day and so far, it's the worst day. I always try to be thankful for something each day. Today I am thankful that I have my husband and my oldest son helping out. I remember when I was a single mom and had to get up and take care of the boys even when I was sick. Women seem to be able to do that easier then men though. Life doesn't ever stop just because you are sick. But my advice, if you can have help, if help is offered, take it graciously. You don't always have to be super-mom or super-woman. In fact, if you have someone in your life, I bet they are just waiting for a chance to take care of you. Maybe they need to feel needed.
By the way, there is nothing like having a dog snuggle with you while you are laying in bed. My golden retriever, Jesse, came up on the bed but decided to lay down on the side. I was drifting off when I heard this loud thump. From the floor, Jesse peered up at me with a confused look in his eyes. He had fallen off the bed. Laughing but not so he could tell, I called him back up. He snuggled right up against me this time. It really did make me feel better. I love my dog.
Linda, I've had to learn how to accept help graciously. My husband had cancer for 6 years and passed away a little over a year ago. I was so use to doing everything myself but I found myself struggling ~ I couldn't do it all! Someone from church told me that people wanted to help me and it would make them feel good so please accept the help. I eventually did and I can tell you it made me and them feel good! And I've become so much closer to my family and friends for letting them into my life.
ReplyDeleteI also have a golden retriever, Pooh Bear :). He has been such a loyal companion during all of this...always greeting me with his big grin! How can you not feel good around a golden?!
Hope you feel better soon!